My girlfriend is pregnant!? How to tell parents? Help!!!?
Packers04 Asked: My girlfriend is pregnant!? How to tell parents? Help!!!?
We are only 16 years old, going to be sophomores next year and been together for about 3 1/2 years since we were in 7th grade. I don't know what to do because never seen my girlfriend so scared in her life and I want to be there for her but I'm scared myself. We don't know what to do or who to talk to because I'm afraid my mom & dad are going to be disappointed in me. My girlfriend is just scared and last night she cried in my arms because of what her parents might do. They are the ones who don't believe in sex out of wedlock and she has always been daddy's little girl so she doesn't know how to tell them and I'm afraid he might kick my *** since her dad is very protective of her.
I am going to stand by her side as always and be the best caring boyfriend I can be because I love her with all my heart. She hasn't been to any doctors, all she did was take 2 to 3 pregnancies test about a week ago and they all come back positive My girlfriend continues to blame herself because she agreed to have sex unprotected without a condom but I keep telling her, its not her fault, its mine, i talked her into having sex without a condom or birth control.
We have never been scared in our lives? can someone please help us? Thank you. She is also a cheerleader and thats her passion, she is worried that she would have to quit and won't be on the squad next season..
Should we tell my sister first because she been in this situation before with her bestfriend maybe should could tell her or my parents. Or is it best for we tell them?
You were mature enough to lay down and have sex I believe you should be mature enough to tell them yourself.Best thing to do is tell them together and hope for the best.Talk about the options with your parents as well but know that she has the final say in what happens whether that is keeping it, adoption, or abortion.Good luck!
write a letter to them telling them what happened also in the letter include that u and your girlfriend will talk with them about it once they are settled down and will talk about it responsibly
First off, I understand how scared you are but when you look back at this when you're baby is grown you won't be able to picture your life without him/her.Telling parents is always tough and scary, and if you want to avoid her dad beating you then I would get her parents and yours together at the same time.Just kill two birds with one stone, and get it over with.If her dad tries anything your parents will be there.Tell your sister first if it makes you feel better, but it won't be any easier telling your parents.Be there for your girlfriend unconditionally, through the ups and downs.You don't get to leave just because you're not the one holding the baby.I'm not saying you would do that, though.Don't even consider abortion, it will leave you depressed, hating life, and empty.Good Luck with everything.
You guys are going to have to grow up, YOU GUYS should tell your parents first because if they hear it from someone else they are going to ge more disappointed in you guys. and don't worry i don't think he will kick your *** your a minor and i think her dad is mature enough not to deal with this situation violently. GOOD LUCK
You're too young to parent a child.
Make her get an abortion and never tell the parents.
well you said that you are the one who convinced her to have sex without a condom so now you need to man up and tell her parents and your parents the situation. yes they will probably be disappointed because you both are very young and still in school but you say that you'll stick by her side so make sure that you do because this is both of your responsibility now, that child won't just be hers and it won't just be yours it's both of yours and things will get tough and you'll want to give up and walk out but that's really not an option anymore. although you two do have options- she can give the baby up for adoption which is a choice she has tomake not either of your parents or she can have an abortion which is also her decision. i mean after all it is her body that will have to go through the change not yours so whatever she chooses you need to accept it.
so what i would suggest doing, and quick, is decide what she wants to do and then tell both of your parents right away because the longer you wait the more mad they will be i guarantee you that. i know it's scary but you have to do it. there are a lot of things to consider when it comes to bringing a baby into the world and you two like i said before are young so you're going to need financial help from your parents and do you really think they should have to pay for your mistakes? i don't think so. that being said if you two choose to keep the baby you need to get a job so you can help support your gf and the baby. i wish you two the best of luck, it's an unfortunate thing but it does happen and all you can do is move forward now. best wishes!
You both do not seem to understand what you are leading into.First, both of you depends on your parents for support.Second, you are not married.As such, raising the child yourselves is out of question unless you take a job that can support living including child care cost.If you follow this option, then you need not have to worry about telling your parents or anyone else.To say that you will stand by your girlfriend is just empty words when you do not self supporting.The other option is you should tell your parents and I believe they will be very supportive of you, their son.I know this from personal experience.This would for sure involve your girlfriend moving with you.Raising a child is horrendous job unless you have help from others.If this does not seem palatable, then the best thing to do is for your girlfriend to get abortion in which case no one will know.See that you have funds to cover the cost for abortion.
I'm 21 years old, but I still feel young enough to understand your daughter. First off, she will continue to do it anyway no matter what you or your husband say to her. I know from experience when I was 18 (that's when I lost my virginity to my boyfriend). His mother found out and yelled at the both of us one day and while this did really upset me that she knew we continued anyway. However, I am on the birth control pill and take it religiously at the same time every day. I'm 21, still with the same guy, and no pregnancies yet!
I like your idea of talking to her and telling her about your concerns. Definitely mention the STD thing because not many girls her age stick to one person like I have. Also talk to her about contraceptives, such as the pill. While it is $20 every month for me to get my pill from Rite Aid, it is a heck of a lot cheaper than dealing with a baby. Don't scream at her and make her feel bad for having sex. That's not the way to go about it. Just talk calmly to her and hopefully she'll listen to you.
I think you should tell her bio mom first and then if she doesnt do anything about it take her to family planning n get her on the shot or something else that you dont take daily. Also print out pics of what STD's look like and give them to her with a box of condoms.
Realisticly as much as I would like to say you can talk her out of having sex thats not gonna happen so yeah. Also dont tell the dad if hes anything like a typical dad he will flip out and make things worse. Everyone knows that the fastest way to get a teen to do something is to tell them they cant.
I can tell you've put a lot of thought into this and it seems like a very good idea. Shows that you both care about and respect her, so your outlined course of action is a very viable one.
If the guy she's sleeping with isn't a complete idiot, he'll know to wrap his tool regardless of what medication she is on. If you don't want to rely on that, tell your daughter that condoms are meant to prevent more than just pregnancies.
15 year old ? I can say I know people much younger who are having sex right now so they are more worrying than a 15yo !
She's near to 16 so this is her choice, if she wants sex she will have it no matter what a mother says or does. If you go on at her like a gannet then she will probably think you are just being selfish and she will do it more, I was 15 once, I'd just put her on the pill or make her get the implant or something, and how do you know she isn't playing safe and using the pill and condoms and things already? Did you know you can go to family planning from an early age and everything is confidential? And like you say you know she's on the pill, rightly so.
I would keep out of the matter and just talk to her about contraception but I wouldn't make it such a big deal to her. And, nothing that is prescribed is 100% effective not even a condom at that matter !!
I know people who have fallen pregnant on the pill – MYSELF !
Needle, and the coil !!
So nothing really can prevent pregnancy over than like that weired sign that says in hospitals 'For Family Planning Use Rear Entrance'
There you go! A typical mother who is over concerned about daughter.
When you children reach 15, you can't teach them anything, all you can do is – be their friend.
So how would you have reacted if your friend would have had sex at a early age and isn't aware of std's, condoms and all, you would simply talk to her and inform her that its safe to use condoms or if you are not that open with her. U can write a letter and tell her the same.
By taking her to family planning to discuss contraception options you will be embarassing her more.. Because she haven't reached that mental level where she is serious,she is having sex for fun, and its ok,normal (you should be happy that she is straight at least…lols)
well don't worry to much. Just be a good friend and tell her that you just want to make her aware that its important to use condoms.
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